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What it really takes to wear the black coat
Apeejay School, Mahavir Marg alumna reflects on calmness, character, and the unseen realities of practising law
Apeejay School, Mahavir Marg alumna reflects on calmness, character, and the unseen realities of practising law
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What does it really take to survive and succeed in the courtroom? Not just confidence or quick thinking, but something far less visible and far more demanding. Nehal Chadha, alumna of Apeejay School, Mahavir Marg, now practising at the Jalandhar District Court, shares what law truly asks of those who choose it.
For many, the legal profession appears defined by sharp arguments and courtroom exchanges. But the reality is far more layered and deeply human. “Staying calm is extremely important. You must be respectful towards others, regardless of whether they are right or wrong,” she said. In a field where emotions often run high, composure becomes a professional strength. She admitted with honesty, “I am still learning to remain calm in difficult situations. Sometimes cases can be emotionally challenging, but maintaining composure is necessary,” she shared.
The character forms the backbone of a legal career, she added. “Strong moral values, discipline, and consistency are essential.” These qualities sustain a lawyer through long hours, complex cases, and difficult decisions.

Law, she emphasises, demands constant intellectual effort. “Law is a demanding profession that requires continuous learning. Students must build a strong conceptual foundation.” The preparation begins early. “They should develop reading habits, stay updated with current affairs, and understand legal sections thoroughly.” Beyond books, real exposure matters. “Participating in discussions and internships is very important to gain exposure and learn how to deal with people.”
Experience has also reshaped her understanding of the profession. “I have learnt that law is as much about listening and understanding as it is about arguing. Observing senior advocates and judges has taught me a great deal.” Listening, she suggests, sharpens judgment as much as debate does.
Yet the path is not without its challenges. The profession can be demotivating at times, especially for women. There is still bias in the system.” She points to another critical responsibility. One major challenge is delivering guidance or decisions purely based on law and facts, without being influenced by external pressures. For young professionals, practical realities add another layer. “Networking and connections also play a role in the profession, which can sometimes be challenging for young professionals,” she opined.
For students aspiring to join the judiciary, her advice is clear. “Discipline, consistency, and emotional resilience are key.” Law is not merely about winning arguments. It is about integrity, patience, and the courage to stand firm when principles are tested.
Shalini is an Executive Editor with Apeejay Newsroom. With a PG Diploma in Business Management and Industrial Administration and an MA in Mass Communication, she was a former Associate Editor with News9live. She has worked on varied topics - from news-based to feature articles.