The Art of Man-making: ‘I strive to be a lifelong learner who leads with empathy’

For Mannat Chitra, a Class 10-B student of Apeejay School, Model Town, a person’s true worth lies not in achievements alone but in character, integrity and the impact they have on others. As an awardee of the Dr Stya Paul Award for Human Values, she sees the honour as encouragement to keep growing rather than proof of perfection. In this conversation, she speaks about the values she has built and the role of her teachers. 

Tell us about yourself.

I am Mannat, a proud Apeejayite. I firmly believe that a person’s true worth is measured not merely by achievements but by character, integrity and the impact they create on others. I strive to be a lifelong learner who leads with empathy, acts with responsibility and treats every individual with dignity and respect. Receiving the award is an honour. But my greatest ambition is to become someone whose success inspires others even in challenging circumstances.

How did you feel when you learnt you had received the award?

I felt immense gratitude, happiness and humility. This recognition was special because it celebrates something deeper than achievement. It acknowledges the importance of character and humanity. I see this as an encouragement to keep growing, learning and living by the values it represents. It is a moment of pride and also a lifelong commitment to becoming a better human being.

What values or skills have you developed through this journey?

This journey has strengthened my empathy, integrity, discipline, patience, accountability and emotional intelligence. I have learnt to listen before judging, accept criticism with maturity, and adapt to different situations without compromising my principles. Most importantly, I have understood that true strength lies not in proving ourselves superior to others but in having the courage to do what is right, even when it is difficult.

What role have the institution and faculty played in shaping your values?

My school and teachers have played an invaluable role in shaping my character alongside my education. Their guidance has reinforced that education is not merely about acquiring knowledge but about developing wisdom, responsibility and ethical judgment. I am grateful for an environment that encourages discipline, respect and personal growth. Teachers do not simply educate minds. They help shape consciences and inspire individuals to become responsible citizens.

In your view, what is the most important human value everyone should possess?

I would choose empathy, because it allows us to recognise the humanity in others, even when their experiences and perspectives differ from ours. Empathy teaches us to listen without prejudice, help without humiliating, and disagree without disrespecting. When guided by integrity, it transforms understanding into meaningful action. A truly civilised society is defined not by how powerful its people are, but by how respectfully they treat those who are different from them.

Do you believe in learning something new every day? 

Absolutely. Every day offers an opportunity to expand our knowledge, challenge our assumptions and improve ourselves. I practise this by staying curious, learning from my teachers and peers, reflecting on my experiences, and accepting my mistakes as opportunities for growth. For me, learning is not simply about knowing more. It is about thinking more wisely, behaving more responsibly and becoming a better version of myself every day.

Has this recognition added more responsibility on your shoulders?

Certainly. I see it not as a badge of superiority but as a reminder of greater responsibility. It encourages me to ensure that my actions reflect the values I represent. Being a role model does not mean being perfect. It means being accountable, remaining humble and continually striving to improve. This award is not merely an honour to celebrate but a standard of character to uphold.

In a world driven by competition and individual success, why do human values still matter?

Competition drives progress and ambition inspires achievement, but human values give both their purpose and direction. Without integrity, success can become exploitation, and without empathy, ambition can become indifference. Human values remind us that we can strive for excellence without diminishing others and lead with authority without losing compassion. Success measures what we accomplish, but our values determine the meaning and legacy of those accomplishments. The world needs not only successful individuals but responsible human beings who make success meaningful for everyone.