What does it take to lead your peers as a student? Contrary to popular belief, it’s not about being the most popular or the loudest in the room. It’s about building trust, listening well, and showing up for others – consistently.
Student leadership in schools, especially roles like Head Boy or Head Girl, demands much more than simply delivering speeches or organising assemblies. It’s about creating a bridge between students and teachers, making sure every voice is heard, and ensuring the school community thrives.
So, what makes a good student leader?
1. Listening over speaking
“A leader isn’t someone who talks the most – it’s someone who listens the most,” says a former Head Girl, Madhyarla Mahathi, from Apeejay School, Kharghar. Leadership begins with empathy. Student leaders must understand concerns and suggestions from across grades, and act on them with maturity and fairness.
2. Being approachable and inclusive
A good leader ensures no student feels left out. They create safe spaces, support their peers, and lead with kindness. They’re the ones who check in on someone sitting alone during lunch, or speak up when a group is being unfairly treated.
3. Taking responsibility, not credit
Student leaders often work behind the scenes – planning events, coordinating teams, resolving conflicts. When things go right, they credit their team. When things go wrong, they step up to take responsibility. That’s leadership.
4. Staying organised and focused
Balancing academics and leadership duties is no easy feat. “You learn to plan your time down to the minute,” shares the Head Girl. “It’s not just about multitasking – it’s about staying calm under pressure.” These time management and decision-making skills often help students well beyond school.
5. Learning through service
Leadership in school is less about power and more about service. Whether it’s helping juniors feel comfortable, guiding peers through difficulties, or assisting teachers during school functions, it’s a chance to lead by example.
In a world where teamwork, empathy, and initiative are more valued than ever, school leadership roles are proving to be a powerful training ground. And while badges and titles may fade with time, the lessons learned in these roles stay for life.