Use of phones and communication gaps in children 

Today, many children struggle to express themselves, and parents often wonder why their child is silent, withdrawn, or unable to share feelings. One major reason is a lack of meaningful communication at home. 

With nuclear families and both parents working, children are often left alone or with a nanny. To keep them busy, phones and televisions become constant companions. While these gadgets entertain, they silently reduce a child’s interaction with people. 

When a child does not engage in daily conversation, they do not get enough practice to speak, express emotions, or describe their thoughts. Slowly, they hesitate to talk, feel confused while expressing themselves, and may cry or get upset instead of communicating clearly.

Caregivers, too, may not always communicate enough. Sometimes they are busy, emotionally disconnected, or simply not encouraged to talk much. As a result, the child misses warmth, emotional bonding, and conversation — all essential for healthy development.

Parents play the most important role here. No matter how busy life gets, spending quality time with your child every day is essential. Sit with them, ask about their day, listen to their experiences, laugh with them, and talk to them with patience and love. Reducing screen time and increasing real conversations helps children become confident, expressive, and emotionally secure.

Children don’t need gadgets to feel happy — they need attention, time, and someone who listens. When parents talk, children learn to talk. When parents listen, children learn to express. Let us build stronger bonds, reduce screens, and raise emotionally healthy and expressive children.

By: Ms Nidhi Ghai

School incharge, Apeejay Rhythms Kinderworld, Jalandhar