The Art of Man-making: ‘Small acts of kindness make a big difference’

She is, at present, in Class IX at Apeejay School, Nerul. Along with academics, she has always loved expressing herself creatively; she is an Odissi dancer. She also enjoys writing poems and short stories, as they help her reflect on her emotions and experiences. Meet Sanvi Bhoi, recipient of the Dr Stya Paul Award for Human Values. In a candid interview, she shares how this school helps students practise human values outside the classroom.

What does receiving the award mean to you personally?

I feel deeply honoured to receive this award. It’s very encouraging to know that my teachers and coordinators recognise these values in me. The award motivates me to continue imbuing and living these values in my everyday life.

How do you respond when you see others not following human values?

I try to understand their perspective because sometimes people are simply unaware of how their actions affect others. If it’s appropriate, I speak to them politely and help them think differently. But most of the time, I’ve realised that the best way to influence others is by leading by example. Instead of telling people what’s right or wrong, I prefer showing it through behaviour; by being respectful, honest, and kind.

How does the school help students practise human values outside the classroom?

Schools play a major role in shaping who we become, not just academically, but morally and emotionally too. Schools can help students practise human values by creating real opportunities to live them, not just learn about them. In my school, we do this very effectively through the Interact Club, of which I’m a board member. Our school encourages us to take part in community service, donation drives, and awareness campaigns. These activities teach us empathy, teamwork, and responsibility.

What kind of values have you learnt from your parents?

My parents and teachers have been my greatest guides in helping me imbibe human values. At home, my parents never just told me what’s right, they showed it through their actions. From them, I learnt the importance of treating workers with respect, keeping promises, and forgiving others.

Is there a particular instance that made you realise the importance of compassion or honesty?

For me, it wasn’t one big moment that changed everything. It’s been a series of small experiences since childhood that slowly taught me what compassion and honesty mean. My parents and teachers have always encouraged me to be truthful, even when it’s difficult. I’ve learnt that being honest with yourself helps you stay honest with others as well. Compassion has also been an important part of my life. Small acts of kindness can make a big difference.