TalesOfTradition: “Our batch stays connected and meets regularly, even with friends flying in from abroad”

Walking into your alma mater years later — this time holding a parent ID — is an emotion few experience. For Mr Nikhil Agarwal, Batch of 1997, Apeejay School, Noida has always been more than just a school. From completing his entire schooling from KG to Class XII to now watching his daughter Naisha Agarwal grow through the same corridors as a Class XI Humanities student, the bond has only deepened with time. In this edition of TalesOfTradition, he reflects on nostalgia, discipline, changing times and why some institutions truly feel like home.

Read edited excerpts:

What does it feel like to return to Apeejay School as a parent rather than a student?
It’s an incredible feeling. The moment you step in, memories come rushing back — the same buildings, familiar faces and countless stories. I feel deeply connected to the school. Meeting old teachers, lab assistants and staff makes it special. When I mention that I’m an alumnus, the connection becomes even stronger. It’s a sense of belonging that doesn’t fade with time.

Why was Apeejay School, Noida your natural choice for your child’s education?
In Noida, there are very few schools that maintain a strong focus on academics along with discipline and extracurricular balance. Apeejay School stood out immediately. I knew the culture, the academic rigour and the emphasis on holistic growth. Once I knew Naisha would get admission here, I didn’t even pursue other schools, despite having options.

Which memories from your school days still make you smile?
There are many. Some mischievous ones best left untold! I remember our then PT teacher, an ex-military disciplinarian who would surprise us with puzzles during extra periods. The vice principal’s sudden visits ensured absolute silence for weeks after. And of course, the canteen treats, the massive playground, basketball and football — it was a perfect mix of academics, sports and discipline.

Do your daughter’s school stories ever take you back to your own childhood?
Absolutely. When she narrates incidents — like colour play or harmless pranks — it instantly triggers memories. We laugh together, and it feels like reliving those carefree school days through her experiences.

Are there teachers who taught both you and your daughter?
Yes, and that’s incredibly special. My Sanskrit teacher also taught my daughter before retiring. The PT teacher now was my PT teacher too — strict on the outside, warm at heart. Same with the art teacher. She taught me art and later taught Naisha as well. Conversations with them feel personal and reassuring. I can openly discuss concerns, and they treat my child like their own.

What changes stand out when you compare then and now?
Air-conditioned classrooms and buses are a big change — something we never had. Though I initially felt children should face challenges, I now see how it helps focus. Renovated washrooms, a relocated primary block and updated facilities are positive upgrades, while the school’s core ethos remains unchanged.

How do you view alumni involvement with the school today?
Our batch stays connected and meets regularly, even with friends flying in from abroad. I believe a larger Apeejay alumni platform — celebrating milestones like 25 or 50 years — would be wonderful. Alumni would love to contribute and give back. Initiatives like the school run-a-thon already foster strong bonds between parents, students and teachers, and I hope such efforts continue.