TalesOfTradition: ‘My school memories guide my parenting’

An alumnus of Apeejay School, Nerul, Rahul Tayade now works with Reliance as a Program Manager. He joined the school in junior KG and was part of the 2008–2009 batch. His enduring trust in Apeejay School led him to enrol his daughter, Krisha, now in senior KG. Conversations with former teachers reaffirmed his belief in the school’s values, strong faculty, and nurturing student community.

In a candid interview, he speaks about the school’s legacy and the values he hopes his daughter will imbibe.

How was your journey at this school?

I come from a family where English was not spoken at home. My parents could not help me much with academics. But the school gave me something important: The confidence to speak in front of people. Confidence to believe that I belong. The friends I made in school are still with me today. Growing up with the right people, good teachers and strong values is what I wanted for my daughter.

As you visit the school now, what changes do you notice, and what feels familiar?

The school feels much the same. The open ground is still intact, which matters to me, since real soil is important for children. However, the classrooms, the hall, the stage, and the seating have improved with better safety and comfort; the coaching staff and spirit remain familiar. Emotionally, it is still the school I knew.

Are there any experiences from your school days that you want your daughter to have as well?

I want my daughter to experience everything the school offers. I was deeply involved in dance and sports, and even returned after passing out to choreograph performances. As a sports prefect, I helped with annual day preparations. Those moments built responsibility and belonging; I encourage my daughter to participate fully, and she does.

What reassures you that your daughter is growing up in a nurturing environment?

Whenever I attend parent-teacher meetings, I feel reassured. I jokingly tell people that I miss the fact that my daughter is not mischievous the way I was. The teachers never complain about her, but I secretly wish one day they would tell me she talks too much and causes trouble. I would only smile.

In what moments do you see a reflection of yourself in your daughter at school?

When I see her wearing the uniform, when I drop her off at school, when I watch her dance on stage, speak on the microphone or participate in activities, it takes me straight back to my school days. When she sang the school song, I sang along, something I had not done in 20 years! Moments like these always bring back memories.

Are there any values from Apeejay School that you still follow?

The school taught us how to behave with elders, teachers, and peers. You never talk down to anyone. Even today, I still see my teachers as my teachers. That respect never fades. I want my daughter to grow up with the same values.